Popular Dunamis Pastor Enenche, has stated that one of the most challenging types of relationships is where the woman is ahead of the man.
According to the preacher, men are wired such that they have an ego. And such men may begin to exact their authority. And try to fill the difference and vacuum with harassment and oppression to show they’re the man.
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His Words:
“One of the most challenging relationship types I have seen is where the woman is ahead of the man, whether academically, mentally, financially, position wise. It is very challenging because in every way, men are meant to be ahead.
Men are wired such that they have an ego inside them, when you get married, he begins to exact his authority physically, he begins to look for how to fill the vacuum and the difference by harassments by oppression to show you he’s the man.
His inadequacy and deficiency, he’s beginning to release it in other ways and make life unbearable for you”.
Speaking further, he stated
“One of the worst things I have seen is when a man is waiting for his wife to pay house rent, waiting for a woman to pay children’s school fees, to buy food in the house. You are no longer a man then. Pull your trouser and wear skirt. Wear dress, wear gown. I cannot ask my wife where is your contribution to food money. I can’t.. Children school fees what are you bringing…Not now.”
